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The Difference Between Usefulness and Dignity

20 October 2025

In our modern world, people are often judged by what they can do rather than by who they are. Society celebrates those who are successful, productive, young, and seemingly happy. It gives attention to achievement and rewards usefulness—those who can contribute to the economy, build things, win awards, or make money. But in this rush to measure human worth by performance, something deeply human gets lost: the understanding that every person has value simply by being alive.

There’s a dangerous confusion between being useful and being valuable. When usefulness becomes the only standard, we start to see people as tools—good only as long as they serve a function. And what happens when they can’t? What about the elderly, the sick, the disabled, or those struggling with mental illness? When we see value only in usefulness, we risk dehumanizing them—and ourselves.

True dignity doesn’t depend on what a person produces or achieves. It exists in the simple fact of being human, of having thoughts, emotions, and experiences. The elderly woman who can no longer work, the man in a wheelchair, the child who struggles in school—all have the same inherent worth as anyone else. Their existence, their presence, their stories—they all matter.

When society forgets this distinction, history shows us where it can lead. There have been times when human beings were classified as “unproductive” and therefore “unworthy.” That kind of thinking allowed horrors like euthanasia programs and genocides to happen. And while our modern world hides it under nicer language—efficiency, progress, productivity—the logic can still be the same.

Human value cannot be measured by usefulness. A life is not a number, a career, or a contribution. Every person—young or old, strong or frail—deserves respect and care. A humane society is one that remembers this difference, and defends the dignity of all its members, even the ones who can no longer “do.”

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