Category: Beyond Religion

Moralistic preaching has done more harm than most people dare to admit. It tries to create goodness through guilt, love through obligation, and compassion through fear. And the result is never genuine kindness—it’s performance. A kind of emotional theater where everyone is pretending to be better than they actually feel, because being real would make…

I had a conversation with a friend that has not left me alone. It followed me into the night. I woke up thinking about it, unsettled, disturbed, unable to shake the weight of it. What shook me most was the idea that if God asks you to kill someone, then killing becomes right simply because…

There’s something I’ve noticed over time, and the more I sit with it, the more uncomfortable it becomes. It is much easier for people who have money to talk about God—how good He is to them, how faithful He has been, how everything worked out in the end. Belief comes easily when life has been…

There’s something I finally admitted to myself this week, and it’s been sitting with me in a very real way. I was talking to an old friend, just catching up, and somehow the conversation drifted to those healing programs I once did in church. You know the ones—full of emotion, full of breakdowns, full of…

There’s a strange thing that happens when we try too hard to be good—it almost always backfires. The more we try to act without greed or fear, the more we notice that our motives are still tangled up in both. We tell ourselves we’re being selfless, but deep down, there’s often a quiet voice hoping…

Today I was reminded again how easy it is for obedience to disguise itself as faith. I got one of those familiar messages—the kind that tells you to fast for three days, pray for others, attend midweek meetings, show up early on Saturday and Sunday, and serve with all your heart. No one questions anything….

Every so often, a new “spiritual assignment” lands in the inboxes of church volunteers and facilitators—fast for three days, pray for the participants, gather early for devotion, attend midweek meetings. No one asks questions. No one dares to. The instruction comes from above, and questioning it is treated as rebellion. I’ve come to realize how…