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Category: Beyond Religion

A space for exploring life without the framework of faith — where meaning, morality, and wonder come from living fully as a human. Here, questions are welcome, and answers don’t need a scripture.

The Church and the Art of Rebuilding You in Its Image

2 November 20257 November 2025

There’s a stage in brainwashing that explains so much about religion. It’s when the person finally breaks — when they’re exhausted by guilt, shame, and fear. By then, they’ve been told for so long that they’re not enough, that every struggle is proof of some hidden sin or curse, that they start to believe it….

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The Rain Falls on the Just

30 October 20252 November 2025

There’s a verse in Matthew 5:45 that says, “He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.” And then I came across this today morning: The rain it raineth on the just,And also on the unjust fella.But chiefly on the just, becauseThe unjust…

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The Year I Let Halloween Be Just Halloween

29 October 2025

Last year around this time, I was deep in religion — the kind where everything had to be prayed over, explained, or avoided if it didn’t seem “holy enough.” I remember posting Happy Halloween on my WhatsApp story without thinking much about it. A few minutes later, I watched it again and felt a sharp…

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Categories: Beyond Religion / Notes from Life

The Mask of Christianity

27 October 2025

I’ve come to see Christianity as a kind of mask — or maybe a cloth people wear over their real selves. It’s a covering that gives the illusion of purity and moral certainty. Society has been conditioned to trust it instantly. When someone says, “I’m a Christian,” it’s almost like a magic password — walls…

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The Endless Problem of Sin

27 October 2025

I had an interesting conversation recently about sin — that old, heavy word that religion can’t seem to let go of. I asked a simple question: what’s the solution to sin? His answer came quickly: Jesus. “God has provided the way, the truth, and the life through His Son,” he said. I asked him what…

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Categories: Beyond Religion / Notes from Life / The Quiet Bloom

When Faith Becomes an Excuse Not to Help

23 October 202528 October 2025

The other day, I saw a woman ask for help in a group I’m part of. She was leaving a toxic marriage, starting over with nothing, and simply asked if anyone had an old mattress or stove to spare. Her message was raw and humble — the kind of thing you write when you’ve reached…

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The Sin of Knowing

1 October 202530 October 2025

I came across something recently that honestly stopped me in my tracks. It said that the whole idea of original sin comes from the story of Adam and Eve — and their so-called sin wasn’t murder or betrayal. It was knowledge. They ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, and for…

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When Reason Becomes the Enemy

6 September 202529 October 2025

It’s unsettling to realize how openly some religious leaders have warned against thinking too much. Martin Luther — one of the most influential figures in Christian history — once called reason “the greatest enemy that faith has.” He even said, “Whoever wants to be a Christian should tear the eyes out of his reason.” Imagine…

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