Category: Parenting after Shame

Starting again can feel heavy. Like you’re picking up the pieces of something that didn’t work, with the pressure to prove that you’ve “got it right” this time. But here’s what I’ve come to learn—starting over isn’t a sign of failure. It’s one of the clearest signs that you’re alive, aware, and still reaching for…

It’s so easy to feel like you’re late.Late to heal. Late to love. Late to figure things out. Like everyone else got the map, and you’re just wandering through the woods alone, trying to make sense of everything. But time doesn’t run the same for everyone. There is no universal schedule for becoming yourself. Maybe…

There’s this idea we carry—quiet and heavy—that if we feel too much, cry too often, or get overwhelmed by the weight of things, then something must be wrong with us. That maybe we’re too sensitive. Too emotional. Too weak. But the truth is, feeling deeply isn’t a flaw. It’s a strength. It means we’ve let…

Starting over used to feel like failure to me. Like I had lost something, or wasted time, or fallen behind. But now, I see it differently. I see it more like a season—just one part of the rhythm of being alive. Nature is always beginning again. The tree doesn’t mourn its fallen leaves. It lets…

Money, like water or sunlight, isn’t good or bad in itself. It’s just a resource—something that flows, something we work with. And just like water, it can nourish or drown. Just like sunlight, it can grow life or burn. It all depends on how we use it. I used to feel a lot of shame…